Monday, November 18, 2013
Showing posts with label #Ladies. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #Ladies. Show all posts
Why Are Young Ladies Doing This To Deceive Men?
Tuesday, October 29, 2013
The Negative Side of Indecent Dressing - Ladies
Thursday, October 24, 2013
Indecent dressing simply means deliberate exposure of one’s body to the public. This practice is contrary to the acceptable norms and values of the society.
Moral decadence on the other is a reduction in the level of morality in the society. Do you observe that most (ladies) had gone haywire all in the name of the dressing?
The other day I screamed when I saw a girl whose parent barely fed well, dressed with half of her breast and buttocks outside.
The trouser she wore is such that half of her buttock was out, with beads and terrible make ups and I heard her mum telling her “to have a nice day.”
Some girls have been embarrassed and even abused because of their outrageous outfit.
Indecent dressing is the major cause of the various assault and sexual harassment recorded in the society, over time. As a result of civilization, Nigeria ladies dress half naked to occasions all in the name of fashion’ and this is contrary to the prestige placed on African women. For instance Nigeria ladies derive pleasure in wearing cloth such as mini skirt, bumper short, armless e.t.c.
As a lady you must be cautious of the kind of clothes you put on. Do you know your dress create impression about you either positively or negatively in the heart of people?
Your dress could show if you are responsible or irresponsible, serious minded or unserious. Dressing in a manner that parents, society and religion frown at is not civilization. The way you dress show whether you are respected or not.
Most ladies now walk on the street half naked, with tattered clothes all in the name of fashion. Also, some innocent guys have been arrested along with armed robbers just because of the way they dressed.
I see no reason why a child from a good home should relax or keep dreadlocks, piercing his ears all in the name of fashion. There is a saying that “you are addressed because of the way you dressed.”
Nowadays, different styles of dressing are in vogue – low west, hot bosom, sagging etc. All these have the society’s moral value to its lowest ebb.
In a nation that is endowed with varieties of culture and traditions, it is annoying seeing this culture and traditions going into extinction. Nigerians find it difficult to dress in their local attire as it is regarded as “old and archaic.”
Indecent dressing is an habit embraced by all ages in the society. It has been inculcated by both the young and the old.
It is common among celebrities, particularly among artistes. This set of people, while on stage will want to look unique and in the process turned themselves into lunatic.
They wear tattered jean with holes, tight fitting shirt, some even go to the extent of wearing ordinary pant while on stage. All this is the cause of juvenile delinquency. Most of the under age children engage in early sex as a result of what they watch on Television as well as what they saw among their older siblings.
Sadly, most ladies have been sexually abused because of their mode of dressing.
The question is: who do we blame for these social malady – the parents, the society or the peer groups?
By Aminah Oyeleye and Seliat Lawal
Ladies Read and Learn! 6 Things Women Do That Push Men Away
Tuesday, September 17, 2013
You need to read this because it will be of help to you in your relationship......
1. Wanting a Man to Change
Many women get in a relationship thinking they can change the man. If a man makes a change for a relationship, the benefit must outweigh the consequences of that change. “I get it: You don’t want anything to make me as happy as you do. But if you’re willing to chase this result by eliminating everything else I might love from my life, then I don’t want you”, says Good.
2. An Overwrought Sense of Urgency
“Man Code” men liken romance to playing poker. “It’s better to conserve emotion for only the most meaningful circumstances,” Good says. While men pay attention to overall themes, women tend to sweat the small stuff. He wants women to know that ulterior motives are not a Man Code man thing to play at, if he’s out late with his friends, he’s just out late with his friends.
3. S*x on the First Date
Unfortunate but true, the “Man Code” man is chivalrous but also “red-blooded and carnal” like most guys. If a woman offers séx on the first, any man will probably take her up on that. A woman that can walk away with a goodnight kiss and leave the man guessing appeals much more to men. They like the thrill of a chase.
4. Talking Things to Death
According to Good, women need to think of love as “quiet.” In other words, it’s what you do when no one is looking, how you find their hand when things are bad and tell them it’s okay. If you hear “I love you” constantly it loses it’s value. “Love is the result of the events in our lives, not the result of talking about the idea of it,” assures Good.
5. Disloyalty
Loyalty is everything, it is the currency of our lives, declares Good. When women are disloyal to other women, it tells the man they will be disloyal to them, too.
6. A Failure to Let a Lion be a Lion
In the same way that a women wants to feel taken care of and protected, a man wants to know he’s the one that made her feel that way. Good explains, “With a look or word, you can empower us.”
Good has one powerful piece of advice for women: Don’t forget why your man fell for you. Woman AND men seem to stop doing the little things they did at the beginning of a relationship that made it fun. Think back and try doing some of the little things you “used” to do for him.
Read this article in GalTime
The 10 Most Over Riped Single Ladies Of Nollywood
Friday, September 13, 2013
Almost every woman wants to marry, infact it is every woman’s Dream to finally Walk the Aisle with Her Mr Right, some Find theirs
Very Easily while some Others wait till Eternity but their so-called “Mr Right” just never shows up! In the past year, We Have Seen Some Of our Favourite Ripe Actresses Get Plucked off the Tree these include, Mercy Johnson, Nse Ekpe Etim, Annie Marcaulay just to mention a few. but for some its still Not Forth Coming, some Of This Ripe Actresses Are Getting Old so we sought to term them “Over Riped”.
Here is the list of The 10 Most Over Riped Single Ladies Of Nollywood
Compiled by Somto Monanu
NUMBER TEN: UCHE OGBODO
In an interview she Granted some months Back She Claimed she dosent Mind Getting Married At the of Age 58, But close Sources tell us that it isnt Completely true, As they claim the Beautiful Actress is Seriously Searching, She seizes every red Carpet Opportunity to Advertise Market, she has been severally linked to Various Men but the most Relevant is Nigerian singer Harrysong, though she still has time on her side we hope to see her Walk that the Aisle Soon.
NUMBER NINE: BIMBO THOMAS
Almost every woman want to marry, she is not an exception, I believe. Until she starred in the popular movie, Omo Ghetto, Bimbo Thomas’s name was unknown to many people. In A Recent Interview she Claimed she wasnt Scared of Marriage and had this to say “I believe that marriage is ordained by God. So it will be done by any individual at God’s given time… we pray your time comes soon.. Amen!
NUMBER EIGHT: EBUBE NWAGBO
In a Recent interview she clearly stated that she was scared of Marriage she has been severally linked with some men . The most Recent was when she was reported to be involved with KCEE.. Rumour has it that she is A Regular visitor to a Popular Church in Lagos And her Number One Prayer Request, is For God to Send Her “Mr Right’ I Hope God Answers Her Prayers Soonest. Amen
NUMBER SEVEN: COSSY ORJIAKOR
She is Always in the News 24/7, she is an Attention seeker she Goes to All Red Carpets half N*ked, infact i think the whole Proposal Buhaha was a plublicity stunt, Take a look at those boobs Men they Look Nasty Take A look at Her Face No Offence but she looks OLD…Aunty cossy its high time you put some decent clothes on and get married how long do you think These Push up Bras will Keep Pushing These Over Ripped Water Melons Firm… it seems these Celebs sometimes forget that they her Humans and will some day get old… well when they do who will take care of them?
NUMBER SIX: HALIMA ABUBAKAR
You can call her Nollywood bad girl but she doesn’t care a hoot. Halima Abubakar took Nollywood by storm years back and there has been no stopping this never-say-die actress. Her rise to stardom wasn’t a bed of roses, given the tough times she experienced growing up. Her persistence paid off in the end and today, she is one of Nollywood’s darlings.
Around june she posted a Photo of a wedding gown this instantly raised Eye Brows As people started Speculating That she was Getting Married.. Reports have it that she is jealous of her Best Friend Annie who Recently got married to 2face.
Although she has been in the centre of some scandals, Halima doesn’t bother herself any more about bad press. Her only concern is to keep forging ahead. On relationship matters, Halima believes in love but has restrained herself from making a lasting commitment to one man because some married people are running out of marriage.
NUMBER FIVE: TONTO DIKEH
Its Poko Baby, She is Un-Arguably the Nigerian Queen Of Controversy…This 29year Old Lady has been severally linked to Various Men Both Short Fat Slim Tall and Young, those Topping the List Include Don Jazzy, Wizkid, sexy steel, Solidstar, hmmm … Thats All, I sincerely Hope She Finds True Love Soonest.. Goodluck Sister!
NUMBER FOUR: SUSAN PETERS
Early This Year In An Interview She Claimed The wedding Bells where close By But the year is Gradually coming to an end and we still dont see the wedding day getting any Closer… Some years back Susan Peters adopted a child and that singular act sent tongues wagging. Susan is a multiple award-winning actress and also a star of Nigerian TV. Her remarkable talent has paved a way for her in Nollywood and her dedication is equally infectious. She started acting in Nollywood movies in 2002 and despite increasing pressure for Nollywood actresses to perform raunchy love scenes and appear with little or no clothing, Susan has not followed suit.
Susan confessed sometime of developing a fantasy on handsome fellow Nollywood star, Ramsey Nouah, but nothing has been heard about her love life. Nigerians just pray luck smiles on her in 2014 so that the child she adopted can have the love of both parents.
NUMBER THREE: BIMBO AKINTOLA
At 43 She is still Searching for Mr Right, Aunty you are just Plain Delusional… in a Recent interview she said that she was yet to find a man that has the qualities she desires… #okbye I rest my Case Goodluck in you Gulder Ultimate search lets hope you dont make our Next Year List.
NUMBER TWO: GENEVIEVE NNAJI
Genny, Recently Acquired a N200 Million Mansion, Many feel something is still lacking in Genny’s seemingly perfect life of fame, money and beauty – a man, who would capture her heart forever. Even though she is not known to be a sucker for love, Genevieve has been severally linked with some men both in Nollywood and Hollywood. The height of it was when she was reported to be involved with Atiku Abubakar during Olusegun Obasanjo’s tenure. Genny never came out to refute the rumours and neither did she state it was true. Perhaps, the one that resounded for long was her acclaimed romance with Koko master, D’Banj. She also maintained sealed lips about it too. She is beautiful, intelligent, classy and rich too. So, what’s keeping this 34-year-old mother of one from finding Mr. Right? No one knows. Nigerians hope Real soon.
NUMBER ONE: RITA DOMINIC
This 38 year Old woman Has Just 2 more Years till she clocks 40… Bia Rita Your Time is Slowly Ticking Away you are Gradually Approaching You Menopause stop waiting for Mr Right Go and borrow a man and get Married Even if he his Second hand…Lol but he should have Money sha (Now am Sounding Like her Mother From The Villinage) Abi You no wan Born Ni? Ok so when will You have your first child? lets take for Example You meet Mr Right today you Guys Court For 1year and Get Married in 2015 infact to cut long story short you will be over 41 when you have your first child.This was a woman you dare not look at once and walk away. She may have come in a small package but you just can’t discard her huge impact on others. She’s intelligent, talented a Graduate of Theatre Arts and a power dresser any day.
hopefully 2014 doesn’t pass by without a ring on the fourth finger of her left hand or A baby Kicking in her Stomach.
Actress Yvonne Nelson has find “The One” ; she gives ladies dating advice
Saturday, September 7, 2013
You know what they say..Experience is the best teacher..Continue to read her tweets..she also says she has found the “One”..So Lovely!!
Guys Read This: 10 Types Of Ladies You Should Avoid On Facebook!
Tuesday, August 20, 2013
Once upon a time, a man would meet a woman, they’d exchange phone numbers, make a date and learn about each other by sharing experiences together. In today’s hyper-connected world of tweets and Instagram photos, we start learning about our potential mates the second they “friend” us online — often before we’ve even met them in person.
One benefit of digital courtship is that it gives you a chance to spot any red flags before you’ve invested any real time or effort with a new woman. For instance, if your new love interest has a mean streak, it’ll probably come out somewhere on her Facebook profile. The same applies if she’s hung up on her ex or hits the bottle a little too often. Once you know how to spot the clues, you can decide if the woman you found online is really the type you’re looking for.
1. The Notice-Me
Nothing passes her by. She comments on every facebook pictures and posts. She judges, praises and criticises….
2. The Manic Pixie
Yup, she’s sweet and genuine. But, really, how long until her ridiculous level of excitement about every little thing starts to drive you insane? I mean, come on, seeing a purple butterfly is really not that random!
3. The Confrontational Girl
Similar to the Ultimatum Giver, the Confrontational Girl seems to seek out and thrive on conflict. Any arguments with her will eventually boil down to who can scream louder and longer. You’ve been warned.
4. The Ultimatum Giver
For some people, offering an opinion just isn’t enough. They need to follow it up with an ultimatum like, “If you are a typical hypocrite, go ahead and unfriend me right now!” Do yourself a favor. Take the bait. Unfriend her!
5. The Serial Complainer
If the woman you are wooing is so offended over a traffic jam or a snooty barista that she needs to vent rage all over her Facebook, then she’s probably a serial complainer who gets off on being miserable.
6. The Ex Stalker
Any mention of an ex-boyfriend should immediately freeze your intentions with a new girl. If she’s bashing her ex all over her profile, she hasn’t gotten over him. Move on.
7. The Spiritual Catchphrase Girl
We respect a woman who makes a concerted effort to improve herself. Peddling spiritual mumbo-jumbo in a status update doesn’t qualify in the same way that putting on a policeman’s uniform doesn’t make you a cop.
8. The Heavy Drinker
Sure, she sounds like a good time — the kind of girl who’ll lead a drunken singalong at a packed bar. But she won’t be nearly as cute when you’re cleaning puke out of her hair or trying to win an argument with her while she’s sh*tfaced.
9. The Insecure Girl
A woman who posts about how ugly she feels either has serious self-esteem issues or is so desperate for praise that she’ll regularly fish for compliments on Facebook.
10. The Overly Dramatic Girl
Cryptic, attention-seeking messages should tell you that the woman you are interested in is likely passive-aggressive and high maintenance.
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